Sunday, June 26, 2011

no sara but it's reality...

ehem, i really wrote this thing not for rasisct (sorry misspell) or SARA
but i just want to compare between this country and australia

seriously i like to watch masterchef australia ,
and now in indonesia we got masterchef indonesia
am i rite?

you know, i'm a little bit happy about our country and totally disappointed with our nation
why?
australia, they are fights for they dream, they NEVER, EVER crush other people dream
they know it is a compitition but they still help each other to developing their talents and
share how to be a great cook, they don't want the weakest one, they want the strongest one
to determind the bar of acivement for them...

but the opposite one is from indonesia, they easilly crush others dream..
throwing the good quality and five star talented into garbage, i mean what was that?
they cut the best from all one by one. they pick easy opponent to lower the bar of achievement
well, seriously? and lots , lots of drama happened, seriously !

but one contestant , her name is vero (not promoted or judge)
she's very willing, then opportunity came to her she used it as best she can give,
so she could back in the track and more enthusiasm (sorry misspell) to be the best
and better than before ...

(isn't it good?)
well, every single thing that we do in our life actually a competition like that...
there's always a goal which lots of people want to achieve that , but we must choose how
we react to others, will we help? will we just bring they down or if i down, i'll make you down either...

the choice is inside you would you challenge ur self and ur friends to be more
focus to achieving more and more or you just giving an effort not a good one, just standard
to achieve your goal, and concentrate (sorry misspell) to make others down

your path, your choice

Saturday, June 25, 2011

complaining about the crap

talking on both past theme in this life lesson is about maturity rite?

 well one thing that show you still childish is complaining ...

i know i know you all must be disagree, complain is one way to blame other things outside us to make us feel better.. but actually it's so right as it so wrong..

have you heard that every action we take it is how we choose the action ?

yeah think about it now...
              what happened to you right now, isn't because other people or things are mean to you
it what have you choose before ...

if choose wisely then it's all good thing will happened to you,
               if you're not, well if you too sloppy to pick it, well not a good thing will happened to you

but , seriously ...
    no one deserve to be blame by your choice...

think about it, and keep feeling grateful for what have you choose before :)
jesus bless all of us :)

Friday, June 24, 2011

being mature understand more in love

i know this is could not in my rules, 1 day = 2 stories
   but who cares :)


mature in love ,, diffrent things from mature...
         okay , I learn this from my friend's sister...

have you ever felt that sometimes you get spoilt by your bf?
      i know it feels that you got his spot light

but do you ever think, ever care about his life?
         i mean he must be have another thing that he should do, his life isn't just about you

            now listen to me, doesn't it feels better if you could make  him happier?
more comfy with you? listen what do you want more?
the main point of relationship is how you be the one for him...

how you make him more comfy with you than oter people does..

start with giving attention, starts talking what he loves,
               not to spoil to him.. really take care him well..
make him special, i believe, i do believe...

he'll change, he loves you more...
              keep being you and keep him happy..
if you got a problem , solve it slowly... think which choice is better for both of you...

:) jesus bless you


mature or not mature it's in you...

      " being old is never a choice
                              but being mature is a choice "


mature , a level , a situation when we could react as our age...
                   the opposite ? childish of course ...

childish : a pattern of thinking " I'm still a kid, i could do what ever i want ! "
                            which is unappropriate for their age .


being mature is never too late. being mature = being more wiser
  * sorry if my degree of comparison is bad ^^a *
                                            being wise is not only by giving wishdom to every one,
          writing wise story or just nagging to ur friends when they got something wrong.
        but being wise is how you apply ur own wisdom to your life and act appropriately
        as your age. Don't  forget to keep feeling grateful for everything we had.


why people want to be mature ?

 ~ they realize their time is priceless. and what they do is useless. in the end,
                                 they want to fix all their mistakes and being mature.

or

~ they had enough fun in their child and they want to move to be a diffrent person...

that's all about maturity ;)
                                                         God bless you guys :)

Saturday, June 11, 2011

which way? which path?

fork road? that thing is always happened in ur life...

but which path, which choice that we choose is different from others
it doesn't matter which path you choose because you choose it for your self...
not for the others,

if you pick the bad path, the one who taste it is you...
if the good one, the one who gladly pass is you either..

same like our choice in our life..

they both tempting if i could i would pick both of them..
but we can't pick two ways at once..

you can't guess what will you get when you choose that path, no body knows..
 each path contains great lesson of life...
    seems like easy...

it just like taking a good apple among the very best apples..

pick it smart, search for the weakness and its strongest..
          you'll found the very best one

God bless you :]

Friday, June 10, 2011

from crap to hero and maybe zero

lot of people are just a big crap...
i got a friend like that...


every time i heard he says a crap ...
really wanna wake him up
and says,
  " you think that ease?
   try to do something under pressure like i do "

but seriously guys...

those crap maker actually want to get attention by their close friend
they just want to be considered as a " hero " not " zero "
 isn't that all we want too? consider as a  hero...
     but sometimes our environment isn't as soft as we think...

life is harsh, we should fight for our self, sometimes people mock you,
your friends stab you from ur back
keep look straight...

keep smiling, and keep doing good thing.. you  might be not a hero for them
but you are a hero for yourself...
you are a surviver in this harsh world :)

GBu :]

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

there's always a time for everything...

: listen to this.

I was adopting this from my life

    someone I love and I really care about told me like this
     " ..it is not the perfect time ...
                   when the perfect time is come you'll find the perfect one."

    and this
    " when the perfect one come
          don't let him / her go ... try your best to get him / her "

 the last...
   " don't try to hold someone you get too tight...
          but treat him / her like a gift "

* really, if you are being me, you'll felt this emptiness fills in to your heart
    so missed him now *

in my word, those sentence are very powerful . this guy want to open my eyes
(which I realized it now)
that there always a time . a time for everything , your mate, your dream , your happiness and love.


    but believe me, the most important is your effort to wait and your effort to keep it.
in this thing i admit, this word is precious, and I know sometimes I am very impatience..

but, be patient and treat it like a gift. It is a beautiful gift for each of us,
    take it with care in our life..

NB:

    thanks for you who impress me in every way,
              you open my eyes to something that I always afraid of...
   and now I believing it now :]
            always be yours ^^

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

being extrovert is never wrong

rite now i'm in bandung :)
seriously, i'm not having a holiday, i 'm here for bringing my school's name for OSN

but one thing i learn today, i like seeing new people.
like this chapter, now i'm being extrovert.. i 'm trying to meeting new people...
i'm opening my heart and my self to be who i am...

it never wrong to be open up...
but listen, it never wrong.. being your self is just who you are...

doesn't matter if they just accept it or not... it just you
^^

God bless ^^