Tuesday, July 17, 2012

leadership inspiration

This is actually one of my task but..
    I really want to share this to you guys also :D

"Why?"

You guys must be questioning :)

Because this is how I see world in my own paradigm and this is how he makes it come true.

"Diversity in the world is a basic characteristic of human society and also the key condition for a lively and dynamic world as we see today."

                                                                                                - Jinato Hu


From the past until now, diversity is one of the major factors of synergism the world. Acceptance and respect from one person to another is what diversity is all about. It's quite common that we always see it in our social life. But, people misunderstood what the true meaning of diversity is itself. Why should they think diversity is a weakness? Should we consider it as a hindrance to everyone?

For example in Indonesia around 241 million people have different bloodlines such as Chinese bloodlines, Indonesian bloodlines, Indian bloodlines and some of European bloodlines. Each city has different ethnics, 5 different religions and many things that could cause them different from others till it's almost impossible to see a person who is really 99% the same like us. These uniqueness and diversity make any country grow stronger because of them, the amazing paradigm came from.

Perhaps you remember one of Napoleon Bonaparte's quote "A leader is a dealer in hope." .
Which shows us that a good leader also brings good hopes, not just empty and fake hopes. Speaking of hope there were many famous leader in Indonesia. Some of them created amazing things that has brought Indonesia one step closer to a whole new level. This leader brought hope to Indonesia. To create a united Indonesia.

That was exactly what he did. He made the minority united with the majority. In Indonesia Chinese is the minority race and he was an Indonesian leader who also had Chinese blood. He helped Chinese race in Indonesia to grow and to express themselves freely and also untied them from racism such as sexual harassment, mass destruction and anti-Chinese paradigm. Because, he knew without the help of Chinese people living in Indonesia, we couldn't taste the feeling of being an independent country.


Around 1967, Chinese people were considered as foreigners which had a lower status than the Indonesian people. Indirectly, they erased Chinese people's right. The freedom of speech was prohibited, forbidden to use Mandarin or Cantonese and even considered that Konghucu (Chinese people's beliefs) wasn't a religion. What was the reason the government did that? Simple answer, they were afraid because Chinese people were considered as communists. And also there were some crucial points happened when it came to the end of president Soeharto's government era. Many Chinese people were murdered, raped,  harassed and assaulted, and many more because of racial demonstration.


 The man who helped Chinese race was  Gus Dur or we called him Abdurahman Wahid. As fresh as a breeze, He was the one who adopted universal humanism when he was the president. He thought that Chinese people deserved to be a part of Indonesia and it's not because he had a little bit of Chinese bloodlines. He revoked laws that forbidding Chinese people from expressing themselves. He gave his biggest appreciation to them and even declared Lunar New Year as national holiday in Indonesia.


Why do I admire Gus Dur? first, because he creates unity between the minority with the majority. what will happened if that unity never appear? me, myself perhaps won't be exist now. I have Chinese bloodlines and perhaps they will hunt my family and killed of my family and another Chinese family. Will Indonesia be the same as the Indonesia we saw today? We saw Indonesia with many race and also ethnic, If there weren't any unity between the minority and the majority, Indonesia won't be as strong as now. Indonesia strong because of the diversity. Different paradigms brings this county move to another level and open the people's mind to a thing that outside our range and understands it instead judging it.


Second, I admire him because he was so commit to do something about humanity. I mean if he were acting so selfish, He would said with or without minority Indonesia would be the same. Same like what Soeharto did in his era. Instead of doing it he made the minority also had the same rights as the other ethnic, he stop all the violence, he stand up for the minority honored the diversity and as Abraham Lincoln say, "everyone is equal". He appreciate each ethnic and bloodlines because their uniqueness and Let the get their rights and free from racism that happened in Indonesia



Sunday, July 15, 2012

Transformation

It's so long since I decided to wrote and fill this blog again :D
haha yes! call me lazy and so on~ I just let some inspiration slipped away from my mind.

Anyway months passed by and I've changed slowly,
too bad I can't post it . I wish you guys can follow how much I've been growing up.
you guys gonna be so proud of me ^_^v

I got shocking news yesterday since I getting my eyes checked and the one that checked my eyes said that
my astigmatism gone which is a yay *cheering* and my minus were added till 1.50 which is ... *lower kitty ears*. haha it's pretty awfull from 0.25 on my right eyes to 1.50 both eyes , well I won't lie but I love wearing glasses :D

Next is I got a pair of Chuck Taylor converse and it's color are illusion blue and gray, nyehehe~ I'm so happy and also I got a hair cut. This hair cut makes me remember the time I entered my first year of senior high school. The time I came as a single fighter without no dreams or goal :)

haha I'll post some pic then so you can see me :D

hehe, sorry... :D I should trust my bf, he's right I can't wink :D


haha once, twice, three times failed :D even winking need a lot of effort haha


I'm using Webcam Toy from google apps and it's cool :)



lawls~ glasses on head sooo not cool :D I wiped my glasses after it :D


anyway that's for today! haha see you tmr :DD


Friday, February 17, 2012

it's never too late


Have you seen someone who really needs a help but no one there except you?
Have you seen someone who lost and need a direction but don't know whom to ask?

Have you felt those kind of situation? lost, confused and need help but you can't find anyone to help you..

           Try to imagine that was you , who lost and need help :) you expect people to help you no matter what happened right? but the truth is no one cares and make you feels so depressed right?

           But what if that happened to the other people? will you be care enough to help them?
will you be wise enough to stop them from feeling depressed?

helping is never too late, if u had a will there's always a way to walk,
a path to walk, a street to run. try to be a good person,

by helping people, the kindness chain will be created, and that chain will getting stronger and stronger...
and you know what? it also turn back again to us :)

remember about these word?
"what comes around will turn around"

good deed will always back to whom did it, 
it's like a chain , a gear, it always came back :)

so don't waste any time to do something useless while you can be a hero
for people out here by just helping them, 
help people who not only cried out loud 
but also who cried silently :)


because, who knows that you might just saved their soul and lives :)

Sunday, February 12, 2012

I'm grateful of everything that happened to me

                           When bad things happened to me I always think that bad things is always happened to me and I continuously thinking that my self is the victim of all these things. 
              
Which is I realizeed that is wrong thing to do. 
I can mad I can disappointed as much as I want, I can cried but I can't run. I can hurt my self but I can't avoid it.
                but those feelings are temporary. it won't last long. 
             bad things won't make your day become bad day right? there's going to be someone who save your day by making u smile and laugh. 

what I want to say in here is, accept the reality, you can't run or even hide from it. You just can change it from yourself, not other things outside you.

and someday you'll see how grateful you are that that things happened to you. those bad things build you and make u a better person, it's make u stronger and learn it not to make the same mistake as you did before.

honestly this things always happened to me. and thanks to God he makes me more successful than before.
It makes me learn that behind bad lucks it's always have good lucks behind of it :)

enjoy your day keep smiling and keep grateful okay :3

                  

Sunday, August 21, 2011

when get down don't get down

really i hate when things get down,  one thing i kinda feels is why everythin happened this way?
i'm trying not to complain, but it turns lot more worse than ever~
and i just get dragged more to the endless hole full with desperate~
things that just turns out more crazy, i search more escape and escape from many things i do~

and it just doesn't work~:(
and i cried lot more than ever seeing all my hard work crash with my dream~